In the end it’s all about balance
Let\’s be real, school isn’t just about reading books all the time. There’s a whole life outside of your lecture notes that you can’t afford to ignore. If you’re in school and all you do is study, you’re missing the plot. Sure, grades are important, but what’s the point if you go through school and only realize you never truly lived? Let’s talk about finding balance so you can handle your academics, discover who you really are, and still have time to enjoy your life.
Life Beyond the Lectures
Yes, your academics are important—very important, in fact. In Nigeria, where the competition is stiff and the job market is not exactly a walk in the park, your degree does matter. But here’s the thing: getting that first-class or distinction should not come at the expense of your mental health or your identity. It’s okay to be ambitious, but it’s even better to be a well-rounded individual.
If studying is the only thing you focus on, you’ll miss out on everything else university life has to offer. And let’s be honest, no employer is going to ask you how many hours you spent studying for that one tough exam. They want to know if you can handle real-life challenges, work in a team, or bring fresh ideas to the table. That’s where personal growth comes in.
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Personal Growth: Who Are You Outside Your Lecture Hall?
University is where you get to figure out who you really are. It’s not just about learning courses, you also get to learn about yourself in the process. Are you good at leading? Do you perform magic on the dance floor? Are you an engaging public speaker? Do you organize memorable events because of your interesting concepts? This is the time to find out.
Explore new interests, join student organizations, volunteer, or even start a small side hustle. These experiences will shape you far more than any textbook can. Plus, they make your time in school more enjoyable. Imagine graduating and realizing all you have are memories of late-night study sessions. Don’t be that person.
Hobbies Aren’t Distractions
Some people think hobbies are just a distraction but they’re essential to keeping you sane. Whether it’s playing football, writing, painting, or even binge-watching your favorite shows, these activities are what give your brain a break from the academic marathon. And trust me, you need that break. Plus, your hobbies can sometimes become something big. Who knows? That small skill you’re perfecting on the side might just be what saves you from joblessness after school.
Don’t feel guilty for spending time on your hobbies. In fact, engaging in activities you enjoy can actually boost your productivity and creativity when you get back to your studies. You can excel academically without sacrificing the joy of doing things you love.
Self-care is a Necessity Not a Luxury
In Nigeria, we’ve somehow convinced ourselves that hustle is life. Don’t get me wrong, hustling is important but if you don’t take care of yourself, that hustle will send you right into exhaustion. Self-care isn’t just something people talk about on social media, it’s crucial if you don’t want to look 50 in your 20s.
Self-care can be as simple as getting enough sleep, eating well, or taking a break when you need it. Don’t wait until you’re completely drained before you rest. Listen to your body. If you’re always tired, cranky, or stressed, it’s time to slow down and take care of yourself. Remember, no one can pour from an empty cup.
The Balancing Act
We can’t deny that balancing academics with personal growth and self-care no be beans, but it’s not impossible. Some days, you’ll focus more on your books and other days, you’ll need to take a chill pill. The key is knowing when to shift gears.
In the end, university is about more than just getting a degree. Without your certificate, do you still have substance? Read your books, but don’t forget to live your life. After all, a first-class degree is great, but a first-class life? Double win if you ask me.
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